Afraid to go on birth control?

...or maybe HE'S being selfish because he want's to make your entire life less enjoyable for you? I mean, so is a little less enjoyable for a short time every few days, but you'd be moody 24/7. Plus birth control pills almost always kill your libido, meaning you wont' be in the mood and will be less enjoyable for YOU. Why can't you use a different method entirely, one that will be better for both of you, like the contraceptive sponge, or an IUD?